A. Loss of loved ones.
A. I don't think anything that broad in scope can be described. It's one of those 'to each his own'. For me it's rather simple--sharing my life with someone I love.
A. This question doen't relate to me, since I've never wished to be anything other than what I am.
A. That all of my books have made the New York Times list, including four in the #1 spot.