A. Try to write with humanity, understanding but never judging
A. honesty about oneself, compassion, a great and unique sense of humor
A. poignant, suffused, iconic, vulnerable -- and lots of m-dashes -- -- -- --
A. that's easy! a spicy tuna handroll with avocado and lots of spicy sauce
A. Abraham, from the Bible. "You started it all. And you got up and left where you were born. I understand that."