A. Being bitter is not such a bad thing.
A. The Way I Am (Ingrid Michaelson), I'm Gonna Make You Love Me (Jayhawks), Nothing'severgonnastandinmyway(Again) (Wilco), Not Ready to Make Nice (Dixie Chicks), The Luckiest (Ben Folds)
A. Self-awareness. The ability to articulate feelings. Good fashion sense.